You know dioak, sometimes people don't know the right questions to ask.
So if you think someone isn't answering your question and being a jerk, they're probably just answering the question you should have asked..
Ask yourself this: what value is there in something anyone can freely get?
The same applies to links, any link you can give yourself isn't going to be worth much..
So even if the link was dofollow (it's nofollow) it wouldn't do anything for you.
I am always ready to learn although I do not always like being taught. ~Winston Churchill